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Keys to Healthy Relationships: How NOT to Treat the People in Your Life

Everyone wants a fairytale relationship, right?  Handsome man rescues a beautiful woman, the two live happily-ever-after, ya-da, ya-da, ya-da.  But I don’t know about you – I haven’t seen a whole lot of that going on in our society anymore.  Every once in a great while, you meet a couple that is delightfully at peace, unified in purpose and desire, still in love with each other and living victoriously – but not nearly as frequently as God intended.  We don’t even tend to see true friendships anymore.  Why?  As strange as it sounds, I think the answer lies embedded in the story of Samson and Delilah.  As I was reading their story this week, I was really challenged.  Instead of finding a familiar, though strange story, about a man whose life course seemed to be determined by every woman he met, I was confronted with weaknesses and tendencies I’ve noticed (and hated) in myself and other women seeking relational bliss with their spouses and their ...